‘NJL North’ Munch
As posted on www.LittlesMunch.com, sent to the NJL Mailing List and Cross-posted on:
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American Cruisers Car Show at The Whiskey Cafe
Date: Saturday, May 22, 2010 (Rain date: Saturday, May 29, 2010.)
Time: 5:00 until 7:45 sharp!
Attire: Street Casual 50s – 60s – 70s theme (No kink paraphernalia, diaper responsibly)
Location: 1050 Wall Street West, Lyndhurst, New Jersey 07071
Visit www.whiskeycafe.com for directions and the sponsored car show event.
RSVP: Not required but let us know if you will be coming!
The American Cruisers Car Show runs from 5p.m. to 10 p.m. for anyone who might want to come early. “The best cars in the area strut their stuff for all to see. The Cruisers DJ provides tunes from the 50s – 60s – 70s for the masses. The Whiskey crew is outside with the cruisers offering Hot Dogs, Soft Drinks and Beer for the thirsty.” I plan to be next to the Hot Dog Cart at 7pm and again at 7:30 pm looking for anyone new. I will be wearing my ‘Littles Pride’ pin. To get yours, visit: www.babypridestore.com.
Munch at The Whiskey Cafe
Date: Saturday, May 22, 2010 (Rain date: Saturday, May 29, 2010.)
Time: 8:00 sharp, inside the Cafe, ending around 9:30 pm.
Website information: www.whiskeycafe.com see the Saturday night car show menu.
Budget about $10 to $15 per person for food at the munch.
RSVP: Not required but let us know if you will be coming! We meet for the munch just outside by the Hot Dog Cart AT 7:50 and we will all walk in together AT 8:00 sharp. Don’t be late! “You can peruse the menu selections on the Dinner Menu Page.”
This is our first official ‘NJL North’ Munch so don’t miss it! We will meet at The Whiskey Café parking lot for the car show. You will be directed where to park, there is no charge for admission. There will be a raffle if you wish to partake. If you really like old cars this show will not let you down! I happen to know several people who show cars at this show. It is a vanilla, public show. Please be respectful of NJL and its membership at all times – always be discreet and never mention NJL or “us” to any non-NJL Member while at any NJL Munch or Activity. No pacifiers!
NJL has now formed North and Central groups which are for the convenience of those living in either region. Anyone friendly to either age play or diapers may attend. It is ambitious but do-able provided we have volunteers who share this vision! NJ is after all the most heavily populated state, as well as being several hours travel time from top to bottom. Member volunteers wishing to Host/Co-Host Munches, Plan activities, or Host Private Parties are very much welcome!
New Jersey Littles Munch Information
PURPOSE AND RULES
‘New Jersey Littles’ (NJL) exists to serve the social and emotional needs of Diaper Lovers and “Little” Age Players who live in or near the State of New Jersey. ‘NJL’ is a democratic organization run for and by its members. Membership is free and open to Adult (over the age of eighteen) Diaper Lovers and Age-Playing Littles regardless of ethnicity, religious beliefs, sexual orientation or gender orientation. We do not allow minors into membership or at any of our functions. NJL does not condone nor does it tolerate the abuse of minors. Governance of ‘New Jersey Littles’ shall be in the spirit of and shall be referenced by ‘Roberts Rules of Order.’ The NJL Calendar Year shall be from September through August of the following year. An Annual Membership Meeting shall be held at the end of each Calendar Year (August), at which time the NJL Leadership (All Group Leaders, Sole Administrative Official and NJL Trustees shall be voted in.
NJL CODE OF CONDUCT
Members and invited guests shall abide by all applicable laws of the Federal Government and the State in which NJL Functions, events, munches or activities are held at all times. During NJL Munches, Activities and Private Parties the New Jersey Littles Code of Conduct shall apply. All conduct shall be in accordance to the general rules of the BDSM community and must be SAFE, SANE and CONSENSUAL at all times. NEVER ask another member anything direct regarding their real or full name, their place of residence, their place of work, or any personal information by which they could possibly be identified by the vanilla world. If YOU are asked the same, politely but firmly tell the asker that you’d rather not say. If this repeats report it to a NJL Leader you trust. We do not condone such behavior and NJL respects the absolute privacy of its members, associate members and invited guests at all times!
NJL Munches are in public settings and accordingly dress and behavior is expected to be conservative and adult in nature. NJL Membership and invited guests are generally an understanding, empathetic bunch and we operate in the spirit of an extended family. Diapering and diaper use is considered respectable behavior within our organization and Diapers are considered to be underwear – as such one’s underwear is expected to be discreet (non-bulky), low-profile and covered by clothing at all times when in public settings (All NJL Munches and NJL Activities.) No paraphilic items (i.e. Pacifiers, blankets, stuffed animals, fur suits, adult baby furniture, etc…) may be publicly exposed at a Munch or Activity. The reason for this is so that all members present, invited guests and the general public are made to feel comfortable and at ease, respecting the rights and privacy of individuals and norms of generally accepted public conduct.
NJL Private Parties are to be operated at the discretion of the Party Host(s) under the auspices of NJL Leadership. Hard Age Play, exposed diapers and/ or diaper-use and/ or the display and use of paraphilic items may be permitted at an NJL Party when there is no direct exposure to any member(s) of the general public and as long as the NJL Rules and general behavior guidelines are followed. At no time shall full nudity/ direct exposure of the lower genitals/ or sexual behavior be permitted at any NJL Function. Nurturing behavior and Discipline (Nursing, Changing/ checking of Diapers/ Parent-Child interaction) is permitted so long as the behavior is between consenting adults and is performed in a discreet, nurturing manner. If you are not sure, ask! When in doubt err’ on the side of discretion! The point is to facilitate any one ‘Little’ to achieve “Littles Headspace” without making other members uncomfortable.
FULL MEMBERSHIP/ ASSOCIATE MEMBERSHIP
Membership is free and open to ‘Diaper Lovers’ (DLs) and all ‘Age-Playing Littles’ (including ‘Adult Babies’ (ABs), ‘Adult Toddlers’, ‘Adult Little Girls’ (LGs), ‘Adult Little Boys’ (LBs), ‘Adult Teen Boys’, ‘Adult Teen Girls’, and Adult ‘Bigs’(Mommies, Daddies, etc…) regardless of actual age, race, creed, color, gender or sexual orientation. To become a Full Member one must attend at-least-two NJL Munch per Calendar Year and gain the approval of NJL Leadership. One does not have to live in the State of New Jersey to join as we welcome the support of our community as a whole. Full Membership is open to all Diaper Lovers and Age-Playing Littles. Note that as a Little, diapers are not a requirement. Spouses/ Significant Others and Attached Non-DL “Bigs” (a.k.a. Dominant Partner, Daddy, Mommy) are welcome at our munches and may become Associate Members with no voting rights. Only Full members may vote.
LEADERSHIP
Group Leaders (Hosts, Co-Hosts, Communications Moderators) for NJL North, Central and South may be Full or Associate Members of NJL of sound mind and shall be elected by a two-thirds majority vote by the membership. Terms of service shall be for the period of one year. In the event of an opening the Administrator may appoint a Temporary Group Leader until such time as the Annual Election is held. Nominations for election shall be submitted either in person or via email to New Jersey Littles Administration. Administration is currently the founder, however in the event of a vacancy this shall be filled by a single elected official to serve for a two-year term and shall be likewise elected by a two-thirds majority vote by membership. In the event of an emergency a temporary leader shall be appointed by two or more Group Leaders to serve until the next annual election. At each Annual Meeting there shall be elected one Trustee who shall serve for a period of Three Years. The intent is to have a Board of Three Trustees so serve for the betterment of New Jersey Littles in the spirit of the DL and Littles Community in general.
BANS
NJL Administration, Leadership and Moderators reserve the right to permanently ban any person not in full compliance with our purpose and rules and expel unwanted attendees at all functions. Any non-consensual, unsafe or insane behavior or harassment shall not be tolerated. This is NOT an organization for non-DL or non-Little Singles – those who are may attend munch/events and/or Littles Parties only as a guest if accompanied by an attending Member or if personally invited by NJL Leadership. We strongly enforce this rule at all Munches, Events and NJL Parties/ Littles Functions which we attend. We are not a singles or swingers organization. Disrespect for the individual rights, personal space and privacy of others, discrimination of any sort and/ or the inability of one to “fit in” with the membership are all grounds for expulsion. First offences are subject to verbal warnings by NJL Leadership. Any “unreasonable person” causing a disturbance or making another Member/ Associate Member/ NJL Officially Invited Guest uncomfortable or found to be of poor character or reputation may expect to be indefinitely banned from New Jersey Littles. Reversal of any ban may only be allowed by a two-thirds majority vote of Full Current Membership.
‘NJL’ FUNCTIONS
Munches are held once per month, every month and travel about the state of New Jersey and nearby regions to ensure fairness to those who live further out and to take advantage of special and/ or seasonal Activities of interest to all. NJL Munches may include an Activity for approved Members, Associate Members and Invited Guests for fun and sociability. All attendees are expected to pay their own way should there be any costs which include meals, taxes and 18% gratuities as well as entrance fees/ cover charges at all times. In the event that Leadership announces any group billing arrangement every member or guest is expected to pay in advance with cash. Make sure you plan ahead of any munch or event or party as these are often billed as a single group expense and paid in a single payment by the Group Leader – as a participant you are expected to pay cash at time of expense incurred, or as arranged by the event host.
‘NJL’ EVENTS
NJL occasionally sponsors Events for the benefit of its members. Events are separate from Munch Activities and may be held “in lieu of” an activity or at an entirely different date. An NJL Event may be a Field Trip to a park or it may be a Private Party in a private setting. Attendees must respect the rights, privacy, and rules of the Event Host. At no time shall any sexual conduct be permitted. NJL Functions are One-Hundred Percent Non-Sexual. Keep it in your pants. RSVPs are required for all events. There is usually a cover charge due at time of admittance to defer the costs of such a party.
THE ‘NJL’ KEYS TO SUCCESS
New Jersey Littles recognizes Three Keys to Success. The First Key is the concept of SOCIABILITY. Members have the right to develop bonds of friendship and closeness with others in a relaxed, comfortable and non-judgmental setting and experience a sense of camaraderie without discrimination or threat. Respect for the individual, including “not touching”, affording privacy, and respect for personal space are required.
The Second Key to success for NJL lies within the ideal of having FUN! Activities and especially Events must have a good “fun factor” and be appropriate for the DL/ Little membership. We want to be a social outlet for those who would otherwise remain home.
Our Third Key is LEADERSHIP. In order for any democratic organization to exist, it must have appropriate planning, guidance and support from those willing to serve in a supervisory role. Those who lead shall be rewarded not by monetary profit but by receiving the highest degree of social networking, excitement and fun, and the opportunity to develop genuine life-long friendships. NJL has opportunities now in: Munch/ Activity Planning, Event Planning/ Hosting, and Membership Communications.
COPYRIGHT
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DEFINITIONS
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Remember the Story of “The Mouse That Roared”?
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